The
Amazing Power of Behavior
(Energy = Behavior
Times The Speed of Light Squared) The speed of light squared is a very
very big number, so the formula means that even a small change in behavior
will have powerful emotional effects. Before the turn of the century
(20th), Freud identified "acting out" as a powerful means
by which patients avoided remembering and feeling. Behaviorists came
to understand that if you change behavior emotions are destabilized
and change as a result.
These truths
need to be revisited, especially for those with a psychodynamic background.
Historically, upper class victorians were inhibited and it did not take
more than a light comment from the therapist for them to stop acting
out. Today, the motto is "Just do it," and behavior has become
the most prevalent way to avoid feeling. A mild suggestion that dysfunctional
behavior might represent a resistance to progress is rarely strong enough
to bring about change in behavior. In addition, in psychodynamic circles,
the tradition of neutrality has had a chilling effect on therapist's
willingness to make behavioral recommendations. In the 21st century,
it is time to pay attention to behavior.
Therapists
will do well to bear in mind that unhealthy behavior binds a great deal
of emotional energy. This means that unless we are "pushy"
about behavior change, it will most likely stay the same. In addition,
it means that when you do begin to suggest behavior change, you will
meet surprisingly intense resistance. It also means that when behavior
change does take place, you can expect powerful emotional reactions
and realignments.
Is
Behavior Change Structural?
Behavior change
is a powerful and often necessary destabilizer of the status quo in
therapy. As I have pointed out above, while behavior change is "viscous,"
it is still fluid. What this means is that behavior patterns, even habitual
ones tend to adapt spontaneously to current conditions. A behavior that
is no longer held in place by emotions or internalized values and attitudes
will change. Several patients, for exampel have reported that their
habit of nail biting simply disappeared in the course of therapy. They
were unable to say exactly what caused this to happen, but were pleased
that it did. Even though it may be recommended, and the patient may
make a conscious effort to practice new behaviors, behavior change is
not structural in the same way that cathartic healing and internalization
are.
The
Fluidity of Ideas
Even more than
behavior patterns, ideas are fluid. Our understanding and beliefs respond
to new data quickly and without resistance, at least in the absence
of an underlying emotional investment. For this reason, change in ideas
is a tool we use to uncover and destabilize entrenched patterns and
to foster the healing processes of catharsis and internalization. In
the same way as behavior change, change in ideas is not structural.
A patient who
was severely traumatized by her psychotic mother held the belief that
she had caused her mother's illness. Many years later she found out
that her mother had had a mental hospitalization before she was born.
She flew immediately into an uncontrollable rage. The change in ideation
was instantaneous and fluid, but led to a radical change in her emotional
equilibrium as her inner anger shifted from herself to her abuser. The
ideational change was not the end product, but the means for producing
an emotional shift. From that time on, depression turned to rage that
could be worked with in therapy.
As indicated
earlier, I have avoided the term cognition in this discussion because
cogntion is broad enough to include internalized values, attitudes,
etc., and they are structural in the sense that they do not change spontaneously.
Making
the Implicit Explicit
Neural science
has clarified that there is a marked anatomical and functional difference
between background and foreground (or implicit and explicit) information.
Memory systems for storing the two kinds of data are different. Explicit
information is stored through the hippocampus, whereas storage of implicit
information is much more diffuse. Thinking is something we do with explicit
information but not background or contextual information. How is this
distinction important for psychotherapy? It explains a number of very
important phenomena that we encounter every day.
Example:
"You are depressed:" This is a typical example of
making the implicit explicit. A casual observation by the therapist
suddenly turns background unhappiness into a foreground label. The patient
feels suddenly validated. "My suffering is real!" What had
been a dull ache suddenly becomes acute pain. Furthermore, the label
suddenly pulls in a host of associated ideas that were not part of the
implicit picture a moment before. In this case, our culture has many
ideas associated with "depression." It is not your fault.
It is a "thing" that happens out of the blue. It can be treated
with medicines.
The consequences
may be both positive and negative for the therapy. On the positive side,
the patient now feels understood and validated. He or she now feels
entitled to help and hopeful that it is available. Guilt is assuaged.
On the negative side, in our culture, the new label may promise help
without having to delve into the painful affects. The following are
some commonly used techniques that involve of the use of explicit meaning
for therapeutic ends:
1.
Labeling: By giving something about the patient a label, we
make it accessible to intellectual discussion. More important, our choice
of label pulls in other ideas and connotations that may be helpful (or
problematic) for the therapy.
2.
Reframing : "Maybe you didn't want to die as much as you
wanted someone to rescue you." This is a suggestion to change from
one explicit idea to another, which may (depending on many factors)
diffuse suicidal intent and focus the patient on needs that he or she
was keeping in the background and not addressing.
3. Making real:
By naming things like the patient's strengths or the degree of suffering
we make these things explicit and give them power. When we recognize
a strength, the patient takes greater ownership of that characteristic,
and will very likely be able to make more use of it. Recognizing suffering
makes it more real. The patient may be horrified to realize what he
or she has endured, and proud of his or her ability to cope. The effect
is that suddenly things that were in the background, felt but unrecognized,
become available for emotional reaction. (Note the word un-re-cognized
and think how making the implicit explicit does re-cognize information.)
Explicit
Ideas as Defenses
Patients also
use explicit ideas to maintain the status quo. "Oh, that's me,
when I feel like it, I just do whatever comes to mind without thinking."
This statement might be used to fend off an invitation to question an
entrenched pattern of dysfunctional behavior or to recognize a developmental
deficit in impulse control. By making the status quo into a "principle"
the patient easily avoids having to change.
Self concept
can thus function as an anchor to block behavior change and the accompanying
affects. It is sometimes necessary to educate patients that one is never
too old to change and even go through developmental steps that normally
belong to a much younger chronological age.
In the example
of the patient who believed she had caused her mother's psychosis, an
explicit belief had been used to hold back frightening rage. Interestingly,
many sessions had focused on her self-abnegation, but that particular
belief had not come up. Perhaps she had unconsciously guarded it from
the light of day, knowing on some level that it was suspect. In retrospect,
the work in therapy to that point had made her ready to cope with the
rage that erupted, where before, she was, in all likelihood, not ready.
Can
Explicit Ideas Become Implicit?
Yes, of course.
A cognition that is enormously helpful in therapy may fade into the
background. When patients describe their therapy experience, the insights
(explicit ideas) cherished by the therapist will often have faded from
awareness. "O I don't remember exactly what we talked about, but
today I really don't react the same way."