The human brain
is amazingly well designed for understanding others. Your capacity for
empathy lets you put yourself in others' shoes and come quite close
to understanding the other person's experience as if it were yours.
In addition, the human brain is an exquisite metaphor engine
for finding one thing that is equivalent to another but expressed in
different terms. A hypothesis is fundamentally just that, an expression
of subjective experience in different terms. As a result, hypotheses
developed from a cookbook will lack richness and close adherence to
subjective truth.
DISCLAIMER:
Because of the highly personal nature of the work we do, it is best
to develop your own repertoire of possible explanations. This matrix
is not intended to be universal, but to suggest possibilities. Much
of the psychodynamic and analytic literature consists of examples of
possible dynamics. Not only that, but there is much, too, in the cognitive-behavioral
literature to describe erroneous "core beliefs" that clinicians
have encountered. These are all good starting points, but experience
probably does the most to fill out each therapist's repertoire. It is
our patients who teach us the most. What makes therapy so gratifying
to the therapist is that our understanding of each patient is unique.
In so many ways, each patient is different from any we may have seen
before.
Look
for the Least Pathological First
This is a very
important principle. We should try to explain what we see using the
least pathological explanation first. Only when that one is unsatisfactory
should we go to the more pathological. For example, the term "borderline
personality" is an "illness" explanation, but, as Judith
Herman has pointed out, notions of arrested development and outgrown
mechanisms for coping with trauma often offer as good an explanation.
In this way, we can avoid applying illness labels to people who may
be better described as "stuck" on some emotional or developmental
issue that they have not been able to resolve.
In our age,
there is a tendency to apply a label then treat the label rather than
ther person. Even patients will identify themselves with a label, "I
suffer from major depression," and expect that the label will be
enough to tell you what to do. These comforting oversimplifications
are unfortunate because they set up many unrealistic expectations, but
even more serious, they tend to over-pathologise as well. They paint
a more serious picture of the problem than may be the case. For example,
the major depression of a person in early recovery from alcoholism may
simply be that she is used to controlling her environment as a means
of coping, and now, deprived of her means of control, is massively uncomfortable.
The following list will start with the least pathological.
Broad
Categories that May Yield Specific Hypotheses:
Lack
of knowledge or inexperience: It is surprising how frequently
some misunderstanding of life creates major problems. A patient was
afraid of her own power. In childhood she had been afraid of murderous
thoughts, not knowing whether she might actually carry them out. She
was so afraid that she kept them secret and consequently never became
clear that her self control was easily strong enough to prevent any
murderous act.
Unprocessed
Trauma or Grief: A great deal of pathological behavior can
be generated in efforts to avoid the terrifying recall of traumatic
events. Incessant activity, alcoholism and avoidance of whole areas
of functioning can serve primarily as a means of distancing from painful
recall. As the patient is able to share these experiences in an empathic
context, cathartic healing takes place, and pathological behavior can
be relinquished with surprising ease.
Dissociation:
More frequently than is usually recognized, some individuals have learned
to use dissociation to avoid uncomfortable experiences. Patients may
feel "spaced out" or "numb" for months after an
emotionally traumatic experience. This is usually not recognized or
diagnosed. The treatment is to do the emotional work so that dissociation
is no longer necessary for coping.
Family
Distortion : Families and individuals have their own ways of
experiencing the world, and pass these on. The impression that the world
is a dangerous place and that the unknown should be feared and other
people mistrusted is an example of such a perspective. It may be very
helpful for the patient who has inherited these beliefs to learn that
there are other ways to look at the same reality.
Developmental
Distortions : Most of character pathology such as narcissism
and borderline personality can be understood as distortions in early
development as a result of traumatic or adverse conditions. When possible,
the first hypothesis should be arrested development, implying that the
treatment is to restart the developmental process. (My experience is
that age does not prevent this from taking place) On the other hand,
it may be necessary to consider maldevelopment that will have to be
undone before healthy development can take place.
Internalization
of pahtological attitudes, values, prohibitions, ideals, etc.:
In order to maintain connectedness, humans identify with attitudes,
values, etc. of those they need. They do so most powerfully when they
are threatened with aloneness. For this reason, when the central caretakers
express negative attitudes, children tend strongly to internalize these.
Such internalizations tend to last and actively resist change for a
lifetime unless there is a combination of the desire to change and help
from outside. Cognitive-behavioral treatment has always centered on
the active challenging of such pathological internalizations. They are
key to many conditions including complex PTSD, depression and much of
what is known as character pathology.
Another group
of internalized values are the positive goals that parents were unable
to achieve. Children often take these on and spend their lives unconsciously
trying to fulfill those needs, presumably in the hope of making the
parent happier and more capable of providing the love the child needed
in the first place.
Internal
Electric Fences: This is a term for internalizations that are
similar to the ones above, but even more stringent. Children sometimes
internalize values, prohibitions and ideals that do not come from any
caretaker. They are the child's own rules for development and survival.
For example, as a boy's mother was flirtatious, but not overtly abusive.
He did not trust her self-control and felt responsible for preventing
anything bad from happening. He developed his own, very repressive rules
about sexuality and was far more broadly inhibited than if he had been
raised in a puritanical atmosphere.
Deferring
Needs : The usual situation is the "parentified child,"
the child who must forgo age-appropriate needs in order to function
at a more mature level than his or her development would warrant. The
inevitable result is that the needs that were "abandoned"
and that may be subject to internalized prohibitions, continue to exert
a powerful pull and to seek satisfaction in indirect ways. The caretaker
who was never taken care of is an example.
Archaic
Solutions to Life Problems: Many examples of pathology can
be seen as coping strategies that were the best a child could do to
cope with a pathological situation, but have survived into adulthood,
and now are the cause of problems. Trust problems and fear of intimacy
are good examples.
Systems
Factors : The "systems" point of view brought by
the field of family therapy is exceedingly rich in explanatory power,
both for the influences of the past and those of the present. Especially
when it comes to intervening, it is helpful to think of the patient
as embedded in a system including the therapy as well as family and
other elements. Interventions can be seen as perturbations to the system,
which may have ripples beyond the individual. This point of view makes
one more circumspect about moving too quickly when the full complexity
of the system is not yet known.
The
Five-Year-Old Plan: Many analysts have observed that around
age five, there is a major reorganization of emotional life and defenses
around the sophisticated fantasies of which the five-year-old is capable.
I believe that the five-year-old's ability to look into the distant
future is one of the most important developments, because it allows
the child to crystalize unfulfilled needs, wishes and fears into a "someday"
fantasy. The pursuit of such fantasies can become a highly energized
driver for the transference. The patient's hidden belief that the therapist
is the key to fulfillment of those wishes forms a layer that becomes
apparent further into treatment when the above problems have been identified
and are on the way to being cleared out. The remaining conflict and
angst may be clues to the presence of such wishes.
Influences
Outside the Realm of Psychotherapy
Genetic
Influences and Biological Illness: It is clear from twin studies
that genetics contributes substantially to the characteristics of individuals,
but it is very hard to know exactly where and how. Psychodynamic hypotheses
try to explain everything relevant to entrenched dysfunctional patterns
of reaction, but in fact they only explain part. Genetics is something
we know is there, perhaps background noise in our attempt to understand.
It is at least proper to recognize that psychodynamics only explains
a portion of what we see.
On the other
hand, the nature of the mind is such that even when genetics is a major
determinant in some behavior or preference, it still takes on psychodynamic
meaning as it is drawn into the organizing framework of the patient's
emotional life. Thus, the psychodynamic explanation is still meaningful
and valid, even though genetics is an important component.
Some illnesses
are currently thought of as "biological" in their origin.
They still have developmental impact as they exert whatever their core
effects are over time. Often families are affected, causing distortions
of early environment. These two influences along with stage-specific
emotional impact are complex determinants of what we may see in the
adult.
Alcoholism
and substance abuse involve major genetic factors (genetics explains
25% of the variance, and "other" things explain 75%). Psychodynamic
factors can support the development of the condition, and can develop
later as a result of ongoing addiction. These complex relationships
make for complex hypotheses.
Biologically
based depression: Theories of the psychological causation of
physical illness are not currently prominent in the psychiatric community.
It is my belief that this may be more the result of a pendulum swing,
than lack of validity to the idea that emotional experience can influence
biology. One area that seems particularly germane is depression, where
much of what is labeled depression and treated as a chemical illness
is actually better understood as brain dysregulation set off by emotional
triggers in succeptible individuals. In such cases it is necessary to
approach treatment from the direction(s) most available for intervention.
Random
Circumstance : Many things happen to our patients that they
have little or no role in determining. These, too take on dynamic significance.
For example a disability due to an accident, let's say a car run into
at a stop light, still takes on an emotional significance. The disability
will still be drawn into the patient's way of understanding and coping
with life and loss.
Sociopathic
or Manipulative: Occasionally patients speak of how they participated
in psychotherapy but had some other agenda having to do with money,
courts, drugs, disability, etc. Therapists are in a very poor position
to identify lies or witheld information. What will usually be apparent
is that therapy does not progress. Occasionally the persistent identification
of resistance and metacommunication will eventually unearth the hidden
distortion.